The state of easiness that we seek is for our own benefit, not for that of others! Sometimes the ego asks: Why should I be easy or flexible when others are not? Why should I allow that car to go first? Why? Because I deserve peace and serenity and sanity and happiness and peace of mind and… and…! When we realise that we are the masters of the situation, and they are not, then we will remain easy. We are masters because we have made a choice and dictated the direction of our drama.