There is that comforting feeling associated with the memories of my attachment. It is that feeling that I so desperately seek every time I am on the look-out for my attachment fix. For example, the satisfaction that I get when eating a hot muffin, or the feeling of love through a warm hug, and the sense of security when receiving a paycheck. It is not literally the cake, the person or the money that creates that feeling, but my own internal associated experience. In other words – how that makes me feel.